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The Truth | Semi Slut Shaming

So. Not many people know this but I have been the target of sexual innuendos & sometimes, just downright sexual advances.
Now, it might not be slut shaming per sè but I do think, in it’s own right, unsolicited advances,are a version of slut shaming.
I am speaking out because I am tired.
Tired of being treated like some object.
I am a mother.
A single mother.
So what if I haven’t “gotten down & dirty” in a while?
That’s my perogative.
No female, no living creature should be made to feel the way this makes me feel
It makes me wonder what exactly these “men” think of me
People I’ve known for years & have come to respect
Like what do they think of me, that they think its appropriate to speak to me like this? AND pls remember that they have a girlfriends or “significant others”
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A bit of background about me,for people who don’t have the privilege of knowing me personally #sarcasm #notconceited
I am sarcastic
I am a bitch
I am flirtatious, but dom flirtatious; like I won’t even know I’m flirting with you until someone points it out
I am friendly & have been told that I have the kind of personality that makes people feel like we’ve been friends for years
I have a hard time saying no
I am a people pleaser
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This dude has been my bestie for 5 years now and he just won’t take NO for an answer

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This dude was my high school boyfriend for all of 2 minutes

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Why? Please someone tell me why. I’ve still attempted to be cordial but nee! Hulle wil nie focken luister nee!!!!!
Yes, I am a flirtatious individual but surely this does not give them the right to basically swing their dicks in my face……right?
I don’t want to be told that I’m right or wrong. I just want this to be recognised. Whether my semi slut shaming or yours. Even, at 27 years old. This is the kind of juvenile shit I have to deal with. That we all have to deal with
– slut shaming
– catcalling
– inappropriate groping
– unsolicited sexual advances
Why is it that we, as woman,are seen as objects,as lust filled temptation objects?
Where’s our worth?
How are we, as mothers, suppose to teach our daughters their morals and values,when you men get a simple rise out of a skin tight jeans.
Why is this fair?
Why is this just?
Why is this ok?
Why is this accepted?

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